Thursday, February 19, 2009

A Baby's Coming Our Way

(The preface...not the most exciting part, but worth reading)
Right before Christmas, someone in my parents' ward shared in church how her missionary son goes out every day expecting miracles to happen. And they do. Matt and I thought and talked a lot about that and how we could increase our faith, especially in regards to having children join our family. We came to the conclusion that whether those miracles came through adoption or pregnancy—and regardless of when they happened—we’d still need miracles to happen and should try to have enough faith to expect them.

But we never could have foreseen what happened next.

(The exciting part)
Only a couple days later we received an email from a birth mother attending BYU-Idaho, and she wrote that she was choosing us to adopt her baby.

Then...
Our caseworker called two days later and informed us that a different birth mother from Texas was expecting a baby girl in May and had selected us to be the adoptive parents.

But…
Before this all happened, on December 27 at 3:38 a.m. (the same morning the first birth mother emailed us) Matt woke up hearing a loud gasp in the adjacent bathroom. Crying followed. His suspicions were confirmed when I came out holding a test that read, “pregnant”.

We are so excited! I don't think I've been able to stop grinning since we found out. Matt gets a laugh out of my overactive sense of smell and my mild paranoia that my stomach is getting enormous. He also likes to make fun of how our baby's developing. "Paddle your flippers hard, you blueberry," he'd say to my stomach a while ago...(But really, he's so excited.)

We feel overcome with gratitude and feel like we've been blessed more than we could've dreamed. We would've been just as elated had only a birth mom chosen us, but for now we've put adopting on hold. We got to hear the baby's heart beat yesterday, and it was the coolest thing, ever. I'm almost thirteen weeks along, and the baby should arrive around September 2.

It's already been so worth the wait. :)

41 comments:

Brad, Charlsie and Our Little Monkey said...

That is so exciting. Congratulations!!! I can't even imagine... after waiting so long. I love what you said about faith. Things always seem to work out and never how we expect.

Jamie said...

SOOOOOO exciting!!! I can't wait!!

Unknown said...

Erin,

I am so happy for you!! That is so great. This is the best news I have heard in a long time.

Melissa Voss said...

Yah!!! I am so excited for you two. I wish you the best! Congratulations!!!

Erica said...

Congratulations!! How exciting, and wonderful that you are pregnant! You two will be such great parents! Brynlee still talks about going to the park with you and Matt! I loved the story, that's crazy that it all happened so close together!

Josh and Micah said...

Erin! What a blessing for you and Matt! Congrats! :) I cant wait to see your little bundle of joy!!!

That's Ms. Amy to You... said...

Congrats to both of you (I got chills just reading your post title)!! Sending healthy, positive vibes to the blueberry!

Doug and Julie said...

When I read your post I started crying. I am sooo excited for you both. We love you. Keep us posted.

The Robinson Bunch said...

oh the water works have come on! :) oh wow Erin I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!! you are going to be FANTASTIC PARENTS!!! reading your story brings tears of joy to my eyes! so I can only imagine the cloud you guys are on. pregnancy and childbirth are amazing and I'm so excited that you get to experience it. Im sending prayers your way for a great pregnancy and a healthy baby. your two weeks behind me. how fun!

VA Bradshaws said...

ERIN!! i'm so happy for you guys. this post made me cry. you truly have been so blessed. i can't wait for you guys to be parents. ahh!! i'm just so excited! congrats! you both will make such amazing parents. it is the best thing in the whole world!

Chrissy Jo said...

I'm sitting here crying. I am SOOOO happy for you. I've been thinking about you a lot lately, wondering about your case because I was sure a couple like the two of you would have been snatched up instantaneously. I'm glad to know that you were, in fact, snatched up right away. I'm so impressed with the amount of faith you have. What a blessing! And just think, now two other homes, two other couples searching for their family will be blessed just like you! Miracles all the way around.

Heidi said...

How exciting!!! I don't even know what to say...I'm just so excited for you two. Congratulations!

Ted and Hilery said...

Holy Cow! This is such great news! I am of course so happy for you. Does it feel like a dream? That is how I felt with Aron... but enjoy every minute of it, being pregnant is really great!

Liz said...

Yay! This is so exciting. I am beyond happy for you and your little blueberry.

Brad and Laura Williams said...

Thats so true about having faith and expecting things to happen! I love how Matt talks about flippers too! lol, you guys are awsome. Makes me miss ya!Love ya and Congrats again!

The Miles Family said...

Oh my gosh you guys I don't even know what to say! Josh got the message on his phone so we came right to the computer to check out your blog! We can't even begin to tell you how extremely happy we are for you both! You are an amazing couple and you deserve to hold that sweet little baby in your arms at last. It will be well worth the wait! We admire you for your strength and your faith. Just think...you were so faithful, you almost ended up with 3 babies! :)

Meg said...

You have no idea how excited I am for you. I got teary eyed just reading your blog because you deserve this more than anyone. Seriously I have been giddy for you all day. Congrats!

sarita said...

I know I just talked to you on the phone but I had to leave a comment as well! This is going to be the luckiest baby in the world!
I'm seriously shaking I'm so happy for your family! Hip hip hooray!

sarita said...

By the way, I believe I called dibs on throwing you a shower FOREVER ago (remember that?) and I am already planning it in my head.

I can't wait!

Will the balloons be pink...or blue...?

jamesncassie said...

Congratulations! That is so exciting. I was getting excited for you guys when I first read that you were picked as adoptive parents- which is so neat- but then this! Wow! I can't even imagine what this means to you. We are so happy for you guys! I'm glad you'll be in Des Moines for us to meet the baby!

bonniejean22 said...

Congratulations!!! We are so excited for you both.

The Carroll Family said...

YAY YAY YAY!! That is so incredibly exciting! Your post made me cry, that is so amazing!! I can't wait for you. Congrats!!

Dee said...

Yeah!!! That is SO exciting! I'm really happy for you guys! Your baby is going to be extremely blessed with as loving parents as you two!

Heather said...

ERIN!!! YAY!!! I am so so so so excited for you right now!!! When are you due? Have you found out yet? I'm so happy for both of you!

Heather said...

Ok, apparently I didn't read the blog the entire way through. September 2! YAY! September's a good month!

Burlene said...

Oh my Erin, congrats! I am so excited for you. Having experienced something similar to you I can understand the joy. Thanks for the example of faithfulness. We'll need to see tummy pictures to support you in how "huge" you may become. Ha ha

you are going to be so cute!

Abel and Abby said...

Congrats that is such amazing news, we are so excited for you both and can't wait to find out what you will be having! Faith is the key to many many things in life, the hardest part is to just remember to have it at all times!
Love you guys!

Kelly said...

I am so so so so excited for you guys. I sersiously can't wait. You guys are going to be amazing parents. FYI, Sara and I are giving you your baby shower we've already planned it. It is going to be quite the celebration!!!!!!!

Mark and Aupreille said...

I am so excited for you guys! I wondered if you were pregnant when you were over her, not because you looked it, you don't at all yet but because of the questions you were asking about being pregnant and labor and stuff. But you threw me off because you said you will still talking to birth moms and doing the fertility stuff.

I am so glad that you guys are going to have a baby and so soon. Hip Hip Hooray!!

Robyn said...

I can't express the joy I'm feeling for you guys right now. You two have always impressed me as an amazing, faithful family. I'm so happy for this miracle in your life. Thanks for you great examples!!

Dax and Jen said...

CONGRATULATIONS!! WE ARE SO EXCITED FOR YOU! You will be great parents! Enjoy your pregnancy...I love hearing about pregnancies!

Tehmi said...

That is beyond exciting! Congrats!!!

Kylie and Drew said...

Holy cow! Erin. I am soo happy for you guys! You have always been such a great example to me and this post reminded me what a strong person you are. I couldn't be more excited for you. CONGRATULATIONS!

Laura Bernard said...

What amazing news! I can't even imagine how elated you must be! And why were you up at 3:30 in the morning? Couldn't sleep because you were planning on taking the test in the morning? What an incredible conclusion to your long adventure. Hope the next six months go smooth and that you can enjoy the beauty of creating a baby. There is nothing like it, especially when it arrives and you finally get to see the little miracle. Congrats!

Megane said...

CONGRATULATION! I am so happy for you! I wondered if something was up when I noticed the adoption stuff was off your blog...but thought I would wait to hear news. I had a feeling you guys would be picked quickly to become great parents, but to be expecting yourself!?!?! Congrats again.

Anonymous said...

Wow three babies coming at you the sametime. That would be so cool if you could have all three but rules are rules. Sometimes I wish they could be broken. I am so happy to hear of your good news!

musson said...

YAY!! Too exciting!!! Our due dates are only a week or so apart. Too bad we didn't live across the hall and our wee ones could be buddies. But then again, we'd have Addie stealing toys and body slamming them- so maybe it's for the best. :)

But seriously, we are too happy for you guys! Can't wait to see a baby bump!!

Christie said...

Oh yay!!!! I am soo happy for you guys! Babies are the best...congrats guys!

Colt and Merryn Givens said...

Oh my goodness Erin that is wonderful! Congratulations!

Matt, Carolynn & Kaiya Reynolds said...

I am sooo happy for you! Thank you for that story, miracles do happen everyday!

Jamie Curtis said...

congratulations, erin! i am extremely happy for you guys. i can't wait to hear updates on everything!!